X-Factor of Sex - Three Tips That Bring the Sex-Factor to You

Some people have the X-Factor of sex, others don't. If you have it the anyone lucky enough to have an intimate encounter with you will be unlikely to forget you. You will from then on be in their fantasies. But what is the X-Factor? What makes some lovers unforgettable and desirable in bed and others not? Have Fun!

 This is one of the most under-rated, under-utilised, least talked about but most important tips for better sex. The best thing about this advice is that it with a good sense of fun, everything else you need should come to you in your effort to have fun!

Have fun with what you are doing and let your partner know you are having fun. Smile; laugh; explore; discover! The next two topics hard to combine when talking about sex but try to find the little kid inside you when you get intimate with your partner.

The way kids laugh and play, explore and enjoy simple pleasures for what they are is exactly the way we should approach sex. Everything should be about discovery and enjoyment! Having fun during sex makes it easy and enjoyable for both you and your partner. If it's easy and fun, intimacy and orgasms come more easily and it also makes sex with you a more appealing prospect.

Enjoy sex, have fun when you get naked with your partner and that alone will bring you great sex and make you so desirable! Smile and Laugh! If you are having fun (and I really hope you are), share your happiness with a smile. If things get tense, good sex doesn't happen easily. For it, we need a relaxed and happy atmosphere.

You can create this atmosphere sharing a smile or a laugh. A smile to show enjoyment, along with any other communication when being intimate with a partner can heighten that intimacy by sharing that enjoyment. It will also bring confidence to you partner if they see you smile and feel your happiness. Keep it Interesting and Fresh! The first time you do something creates a memory.

You can bring that to your sex life by simply changing something small in your routine to make that occasion something worth remembering. Even changing something as small as who gets naked first or how long you kiss before removing a single item of clothing can bring extra excitement.

 Putting a little thought into sex and how tonight might be different can have great results and that small bit of planning can heighten anticipation, also leading to better sex! Explore and find what works and what doesn't. Laugh at failures and enjoy doing what does work.